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Exotic dancer just sharing her strippin' stories with the world. I've been doing this for four years now just paying my way through college - pre-med biology major. I've seen everything you could imagine (and it just keeps getting better)! Click "About Lily" above for more information & pictures.
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Gettin’ abs! :D
Anonymous Asks:
lilyleilana Said:
Why yes, I do!
- @LilyLeilana - my personal stripper account
- @StripperPix - a new account for strippers to send their pictures to
tainteddove Asks:
lilyleilana Said:
Yes, I suffer from this same problem. Money is so tight lately in my club (as I imagine it is everywhere else as well) so girls are doing whatever it takes now to make an extra buck. And I do mean whatever it takes.
I wish there was some easy way to fix this. The problem is that management doesn’t seem to care much because right now we need all the girls we can get (and they’re probably making enough income to live on comfortably themselves so why change). They can only reprimand bad girls a few times for their actions before they would even consider firing them. That’s what I’ve noticed, anyway. How is management at your club? Would they be willing to sit down and have a talk with these not-so-pleasant dancers? It might not hurt talking to them and just explaining your concern and how their actions are affecting your money.
The only thing we can really do is stick to our guns and not give in to peer pressure. We need to cross our fingers that business will pick up soon but more importantly that decent, well-rounded customers will find the way to our stages and not to the girls who are acting raunchy and disgusting. True gentlemen will always spot the diamond in the rough. We just desperately need more of them. :/
Keep your head held high, girl! You definitely chose the right path to take here!
I’ve also been making it a point to really talk my club up and talk about how most of the girls are intelligent as well as sexy. If they ever bring up the name of a dancer who is pure and utter scum, I just smile and reply “I’m sorry, I don’t really know her that well. The girls I hang out with from this club remind me of myself and we’re just ordinary women who love a good conversation and excellent company, such as yourself! So thank you very much for choosing to sit and talk with ME instead of someone else, I really appreciate it.” Not only does this boost their ego, but it also can change the subject pretty quickly if need be. ;)
Keep in contact with me and let me know how it progresses in your club regarding girls quitting.
jetaime-dali Asks:
lilyleilana Said:
I have been out of work for a while due to an ankle injury. :/ I’ve just been sitting at home a lot doing absolutely nothing (which is killing me) but oh well. Just can’t wait to get back to work and make some money, honey! ;D
How have you been, darlin’?
I wish more of the strippers I follow here on Tumblr would allow commenting on their entries. *hint*hint* You are all beautiful, magnificent creatures and I constantly want to reply to all your touching entries.
Consider it? Please? *bats her stripper eyes*
** Please help me by reblogging this if you’re a stripper (or if you love strippers)! **
I’ve noticed there are a ton of Twitter accounts for girls to send their pictures to and then they get retweeted but there are none specifically for strippers. So I made one!
If you’re on Twitter and you’re a stripper, add this new account and tweet me your stripper pictures so I can retweet them to the world and get you more followers/fans! Help it grow - the more followers, the more exposure I can get for you!!
SPREAD THE WORD, PLEASE! Thank you! <3
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Before I auditioned as a stripper, I was warned by a few friends and other dancers to prepare myself for the huge array of stupid questions I would constantly be asked on a nightly basis. “Would you go out with me? Can I have your number? Do you do ‘things’ outside the club?” I remember thinking to myself that there’s NO WAY girls could get asked these types of questions all the time. Guys can’t be that desperate!
Boy, was I sorely mistaken.
You will get asked the strangest questions of your life, I am serious. The key is to stand your ground and never falter. If you don’t want to give your number out to people, DON’T (and don’t feel bad for saying “no.”) If you want to build a clientele list but don’t want to give out your personal number, download an app that gives you a free texting number. I have an Android phone and I use the Pinger Text Free app. Highly recommended.
I never date customers. Ever. There are so many problems with this and some girls may disagree with me here but seriously, to avoid drama and future problems, just don’t do it. Keep a customer as a CUSTOMER and make sure they know that if they start asking you out. Make it a point to tell them that dancing is your job and it’s not your intention to meet men at your place of business. I always joke and tell guys I would never date someone who has seen me half naked before knowing my favorite color and what I went to school for.
If a customer ever asks you if you’re dating someone or married and you are, tell them “yes.” Sooooo many girls lie about this thinking it will affect their money but here’s the honest to God truth; if that customer stops tipping you because you’re involved in a relationship, they’re seriously not worth it (and neither is their money). If you lie about it and lead them on, they will definitely come on to you because they are looking for single girls. This lie is going to keep growing until they eventually find out the truth (from you or another co-worker) or you end up cheating on your loved one. This isn’t worth it and it destroys lives & families! The majority of the men that come into strip clubs are there for the show and the company, not to date you. Sure, a lot of guys will ask and joke around about it but I know for a fact that well over half of them will still tip you even if they know you’re involved with someone. You also have every right to tell them you’d rather not discuss your personal life at work. Overall message here: if a customer stops tipping or won’t tip you because you’re in a relationship or refuse to reveal secrets of your personal life with them, they are not worth it in the long haul. This is *INCREDIBLY* difficult for girls to see (especially new girls) but please trust me on this one. Experience has taught me well.
Never, ever agree to activities outside of the club. It’s easy to get wrapped up in the money & compliments & “new girl stripper fame” when you first start, especially when guys promise you things. Trust me when I say they have used that line before… many, many times… probably on other girls you work with, too! You are worth more than any amount they are offering you and if you ever do meet someone outside the club, don’t ever go alone and be sure to tell a million people where you’re going. But I wouldn’t recommend this. Period. Stay a stripper at your club. When you walk out those doors at night, let your stripper persona stay there until the next night you return. “Lily” gets shut in every night I leave; locked in with the costumes, shoes and everything else that makes her who she is, sleeping in the darkness, awaiting my return the following shift.
Some girls go on lunch dates with customers, go shopping, or even go on elaborate trips with them. I have met customers of mine before for lunch and one took me shopping once. But I need to stress two important things: 1) I ALWAYS had someone with me and 2) I made it very clear that I was not doing anything illegal in exchange for money. Both times I did this it was with two customers whom I had known for years. Literally… three years. I would never ever randomly meet someone I had just met the night before. Building rapport is important with me.
I wish more ladies I worked with would stay classy. When I say that, I mean this: truly classy strippers are rare these days and that really upsets me. I will defend this profession until the day I die but the raunchy girls constantly giving the rest of us a bad name are the ones I can do without. Remember you’re a lady as well as a F-A-N-T-A-S-Y to the men you meet. Keep the work at work and your personal life separate. Never throw away your morals for money, ever! I don’t care how much they’re offering you; you’re better than that! Mind your manners, treat people with respect and always, ALWAYS act professionally.
I have seen this profession poison many girls. I’ve seen bright-eyed college students start dancing to pay for school only to drop out later on due to newly found drug addictions. I’ve seen single moms come audition to help support their children only to end up prostituting and letting sleazy guys fondle them in the back for a buck. I’ve seen seemingly innocent young women decide to give this job a try only to end up raging, sloppy alcoholics who end up gaining a large amount of weight because of it. Psyches get broken down, bodies get worn to bits. Stripping is an incredibly hard job, physically and emotionally & it’s sad that it can get under your skin in such a negative way.
If you become a stripper, set your goals and follow through with them; the benefits you’ll reap are indescribable. You can make a small fortune if you are smart and business savvy. Do your research and set your boundaries. Never give in to peer pressure. Know who you ARE and what you WANT.
Girls — be strong, stay ladies, stay classy. It will be worth it in the end, I promise you that.
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Finally started my FAQ page. If anyone out there has any other questions that haven’t been addressed regarding stripping, send them my way!
Anonymous Asks:
lilyleilana Said:
First of all, is this strip club in the same town as the management firm you work at? If so, don’t do it. Chances are you are going to run into someone there you work with. If you want to strip, try working at a club about an hour away from where you work. I know it sounds bad (all that driving) but it will be worth it because no one will know you and the chances of you seeing a fellow employee will be slim to none.
Yes, stripping can affect your future BUT it depends on the club you decide to work at. If you fill out a W-2 at the club, future employers may be able to see that if they ever run a background check. Basically, if the club keeps track of all their employees and claim you on their taxes, you are on the grid. If you work at a club strictly on tips only and they don’t require you to fill out any tax forms, chances are you will be safe since the government has no way of knowing you’re there and what you’re earning. However, there is another catch here. Some states require dancers to obtain a permit to strip. Contact the club you are thinking about auditioning at to see if this is required, they can help you through the registration process if you decide to do it. Just beware that once you’re registered, it’s no longer a secret.
aliekatkiss Asks:
lilyleilana Said:
Glad to hear Miss Sarah is taking action. Good luck, girl!
